Sunday, September 13

every girl

April once said .... (nt very long ago)...
"every girl like having someone going after her..."

it feels nice having someone to jaga u, sayang u at times.
least of it all, it feels nice to having meant something to someone.
even mere importance was really nice & warm.

then again, I keep reminding myself wat i set out to do a few months ago.
i told myself that i'd grow up.
i told myself tat this time, i'll take my time.

i have never been single for too long.
normally i'd end up with someone a few months after a break up.
i wonder why. perhaps its jus a yearning for companionship? guess so...

singlehood has brought quite alot of things to perspective to me.
and i need to maintain priorities.

a colleague once told me that he despise reading girls blogs.
simply because girls blog about non issues (to them)...
like boys, hair, fashion, shopping, girlfriends and well...boys.
while guy blogs about informative things and interesting thought of the day.

well, its simply because we operate differently.

girls have strong emotional dependant on alot of thing.
from a crush, to stress to even having period would ruin her mood.
everything and anything has a effect and triggers a string of emotions....
which being girls... we gotta let them out!!
from missing mom's cooking... to partying with friends... to even window shopping.
none of these issues...in a girls blog can be written in a 1 (ONE) sentence statement.
:)
we babble alot.

boys however are more rational & analytical.
they have really brief blogs. if its a post about their day,
it'll be a very simple, point to point DOCUMENTARY like post about their day.
if they like the song. they share the lyrics of the song and says that they like it.
tats tat.
if their interested in animes or figurings,
it'll be a PROFILE of their character or an episode.
thats how simple they are.

ppl say i'm a semi-dude, but i talk about boys sometimes too.
i call him a semi-chick, then again he is a very rational and sincere person.
somehow... i think mix-breed like us...
we tend to survive better. :)

1 comment:

@pr!l said...

lol..did i? oh wait..i think i did a long time ago..LOL!! well..that's y boy's blogs are BORING! its so monotonous and flat..its so emotionless..so cold...so to the point n fullstop! well...i guess there's a different degree of girl's blogs too..some are really personal ( to put it in a nice way)..or rather self-obsessed...some are really girlish n nonsensical..! others..there are just merely thoughts and feelings in words...so i guess...i still prefer reading girl's blogs.but not those that are too girlish..i'll get goosebumps..then again..i don't really read blogs..lol.!

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