friends.

i wanted to name this post " dick's & hoes" initially.
buthen i rmb-ed i have family & colleague occasionally reading thru, so i scratched that title.

yunno theres this saying
"bros before hoes"
and the girls version of
"chicks before dicks"
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its suppose to be this ultimate motto / code,
almost like this invisible existing "girl code".

"Bros before Hoes"
The unwritten law that your bros (male friends) should always become before hoes (female with whom you are/hoping to have a relationship with).that your hengtais will always come first before your gals (for dudes),
and then theres the female version
"Chicks before Dicks"
Used by women as meaning all female friends come before sex/hookups/bfs
and your girlfriends are more important then your bfs.

i am a avid believer of this rule actually,
not technically "GIRLFRIENDS" only, but my friend do come 1st in terms of a relationship,
and before them theres family.
so a relationship (to me) is normally the least of my worries / issues.

however, alot of my friends beg to differ.
(unfortunate for me)
but i have to come to terms that different people have different priorities.

i know i need to accept it,
sumtimes abit susah la.
hence this ranting post.

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its even more obvious when everyone was single,
you'd probably see each other like monthly or something,
and they'll always be more involve in stuff to do or plan.
and after they're attached,
it'll probably mean u'll never ever see them anymore,
other than birthdays or some rare celebration.
because she'll probably "had plans already"

:(